Black and white image of a person wearing glasses, holding a tablet with a keyboard, dressed in a patterned dress.

all about your planner & coordinator

Hi, I'm Avery Hat Bender, the heart behind ABC Weddings & Events.

I believe your wedding day should be a joyful celebration, not a stressful blur.

That's where I come in!

Let's ditch the overwhelm and create a day that truly reflects you.

My approach is all about genuine connection and compassionate support. I'm not here to simply check items off a list – I want to be your advocate, your confidante, and your friend throughout this exciting time.

Weddings can be expensive, and I believe everyone deserves access to beautiful, stress-free planning. That's why I strive for honesty, accessibility, and work tirelessly to help you achieve your dream wedding within your budget.

Wedding planning can bring a rollercoaster of emotions. I'm here to listen, offer unbiased support, and be your calm amidst the chaos. My goal is simple: we'll start as strangers and end as friends.

Let's make your wedding planning journey a joyful and unforgettable experience!

Avery can plan your wedding wherever your imagination takes you.

  • Couple in vintage car with 'Just Married' sign and cans attached, driving on tree-lined road.

  • Two people in suits holding hands, standing in front of floral decor, emotional expression on one person's face. Black and white.

  • A rustic barn setting with a long wooden dining table elegantly set with fine china plates, surrounded by chairs. The table is adorned with floral arrangements and tall candle holders. String lights hang from the wooden beams above, creating a warm ambiance.

  • A bride having her veil adjusted by a woman in a black outfit inside an elegant venue.

  • Vintage floral china bowl and plate on white tablecloth with green fabric decor.

  • Bride and groom kissing at wedding ceremony, surrounded by guests outdoors.

  • Wedding accessories flat lay with white high-heeled sandals, silver jewelry, a wedding invitation with roses, a ring box, and red ribbon on wooden floor.